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We assume the need to be ‘professional’ in the voluntary sector, but are our concepts of professionalism outdated, unfulfilling and ultimately unproductive in achieving the impacts we are here to achieve?  Instead of a ‘professionalism’ that wedges a gap between who we really are and the role we play at work, what would enable us to ‘take off our masks’ and build work places that are ‘More Like People’?

“You must learn to always be professional. Never lose your temper, never cry, never get impatient, never get upset, never show your weakness. If you are caving under pressure, run to the bathroom. …by being emotional, you are making yourself a liability. No one wants to keep people who are flakey or break under pressure. The corporate world wants people of steel.”
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This may be a somewhat extreme example, but the essence of this excerpt can be found in countless watered-down versions by Googling the phrase: “how to be professional at work”.  Even in the voluntary and community sectors, we are increasingly used to a singular definition of professionalism, one that may have felt initially alien to us, but which we‘ve become increasingly accustomed to during our working lives.  Unfortunately, the old rules of thumb around how one should behave in a working environment often have significant negative repercussions, fostering tension between colleagues and erecting barriers between the ‘professionals’ and those an organisation exists to support.

Tips on ‘professionalism’ from corporate consultants and bloggers often include:

I recently heard Jon Rouse, Chief Executive of Croydon Council describe these kinds of ‘tips’ as the basis of ‘the Cult of Professionalism’.  This ‘cult’, he said, is guided by an incredibly narrow set of mostly unspoken norms, which strip away some of the core principles that make us human; traits like empathy, emotion, individualism and opinion.  While becoming ‘professional’, we separate ourselves from the vast majority of other people in the world, behaving – and often thinking (while at work, at least) – in ways that seem unimaginable and often highly suspect, to people who exist outside of this constructed reality.  But unlike the cults of Scientology or Freemasonry, membership in the Cult of Professionalism is often fluid – a membership which many of us will pass in-and-out of at different times in our working lives, rather than committing to permanently.

Essentially though, this model of ‘professionalism’ pushes those who accept it to compartmentalise their lives (to varying degrees), to fit its rigid criteria.  ‘From nine-to-five, Monday-to-Friday, I am a ‘professional’.  During evenings and weekends, I might be a new father, a scout leader, a revolutionary Marxist, an alcoholic, a BNP member, a choir leader, a beekeeper…’.

Some of these roles, we might say, are clearly best left outside of the workplace.  However, like a pressure cooker, if we try to create false partitions between parts of our lives for too long, they will eventually boil-over into one-another.  For example:
Or more positively:

So I would argue that ‘siloing’ ourselves (‘the professional’ and ‘everything else in our lives’) is neither sustainable, nor desirable.  The loss of basic human characteristics that so often occurs when we allow only a limited piece of ourselves to show over a significant period of time can limit or damage the relationships we are able to build in our working lives.  And whetherBest Source For Tramadol Online, or that of Tramadol Online Overnight, good relationships are increasingly recognised as crucial to (relative) success in the workplace.

But such things only happen in the corporate world!

Though the Cult tends to be most associated with the civil service and the financial sector, one does not have to look far to see the growing prevalence of corporate influence in civil society organisations.  Whether as ‘value for money’ audits (as opposed to value for impact), public contract culture (‘we’ve got to compete with bids by private companies’), or Social Return on Investment (and its attempts to convert human stories into cash sums), there are many examples of the values which have traditionally underpinned our sector, being subtly undermined by more bottom-line-orientated approaches.

As may have been expected, the cultures associated with those practices in the private sector have gradually begun to foment themselves in the working cultures of various larger voluntary organisations.  This is clearly more immediately problematic when staff are engaging with victims of abuse or ex-offenders, than if they are simply trading stocks in the City.  Impersonal and sterile policies against ‘Order Cheap Tramadol Cod’,  ‘Tramadol Ordering’ and a range of other basically human activities, send a clear message that the ‘professionalism’ an employer desires, is one which checks many of your personal characteristics at the door; not all that far from the quotation I begun the blog with…

So what do we do about it?

This is not an easy one and I don’t pretend to have clear answers, as our entrenched attitudes are not easily re-shaped.  That said I have a couple of ideas that might be worth thinking about if you’ve experienced some of these issues in your organisation.

Push the professional comfort zone
Most of us would find it much harder to be ‘professional’ (in the narrowest sense) if our regular working environment was radically changed.  Jon Rouse at Croydon Council implemented such a change via direct interactions between senior council officers and local people who had felt hurt or oppressed by the council services they had received.  This was not to necessarily validate every negative experience as a fair indictment of the council, but to give people who rarely saw the frontline impacts of their decisions, a first-hand glimpse into what it would have felt like to have a child taken into care, or to be unable to visit a loved-one while they were in the hospital.  The officers were not there to defend the choices made by the council, only to better understand the feelings of those on the other end of those choices – encouraging a sense of empathy with their experiences.  Rouse described the process as intensely emotional for many, but one which shifted the perspectives of many of those from the council who were involved, helping them to better appreciate the difficulties social services could unwittingly create in people’s lives, and how these might be mitigated from the policy level.  It’s hard to maintain a narrowly professional persona, when confronted directly with firsthand human suffering, especially if there’s even a minute possibility that something you did or didn’t do, may have played some role in allowing that suffering to happen.

Trust staff’ judgment – don’t always try to regulate it
I just read an advice piece in Tramadol Online Overnight Fedex on dealing with staff who are in relationships together.  It was based on the premise that something bad would probably happen as a result of a romantic relationship and that Tramadol Overnight Shipping Visa… Wait!  A policy?  To prevent heartbreak?  To tell staff not to let their heartbreak show at work?  To tell them not to have personal feelings for colleagues at all?  There’s no question that there can sometimes be messy elements to workplace relationships, but nothing you can regulate will prevent these from occurring.  With that said, most of the time they don’t, but our responses often assume the worst before having reason to do so.  Why not congratulate them on their happiness and address any issues individually, if they do happen to become issues?

This ties into some fairly key ideas of Tramadol 100 Mg For Sale Online, challenging the assumption of the worst (‘left unregulated, people will do wrong’) that often underpins organisational planning efforts and policies.  Regulation should be a last-resort, rather than a knee-jerk response to organisational dilemmas.  Humans are remarkable when it comes to addressing issues as they arise!

Make yourself a bit vulnerable
I have only gut-instinct and a limited mix of personal and professional experiences on which to base this, but feel strongly that ‘conscious vulnerability’ is an important step to breaking-through the ‘Cult of Professionalism’.

Tramadol BuyersAs we’re rarely used to expressing anything resembling emotion in the workplace, this is a difficult challenge for most of us, especially as working relationships can be subtly competitive, or even adversarial.  In this context, becoming consciously vulnerable can feel like a death sentence, however, it may be the olive branch that begins to shift a working culture towards something more genuinely mutually beneficial.  There’s no guarantee of success, and a bad experience may not be an easy one, but without risk, we omit the possibility of change…

Conscious vulnerability breeds trust, through the implicit acknowledgment that you have given someone the opportunity to hurt you, on the assumption they won’t.  So if you ask for the help of someone of a lower rank, but with particularly relevant experience, or admit that a decision you made was a mistake, it may start to change the ways people relate to you and to each other.  By modelling little changes and demonstrating trust in those you work with, it may very well encourage others to follow suit.

When we cut-off our own emotions (conforming to the spoken-and-unspoken expectations of the Cult), we often simultaneously limit our ability to empathise with the emotions of others.  Empathy is another key idea in my human institutions work, and one that By Tramadol Online Uk in the context of “re-thinking our institutions in society to prepare the groundwork for an empathic civilisation”.  A bit abstract, I know, but an important bit of grounding for some of the bigger picture changes that our collective behaviours can gradually start to shape…

“Push the professional comfort zone,
Trust staff judgement,
Make yourself a bit vulnerable”

Have you broken free of the Cult?

As mentioned earlier, membership in the Cult of Professionalism is far from all-encompassing and elicits different commitment from each of us at different times.  Very few people bring the Cult into every aspect of their lives, as we would immediately find it limiting to our ability to form meaningful relationships and get any real sense of satisfaction from the world.  But many of us, understandably, take on bits of it, as it suits us, when we are in a working environment where it is the norm.  Sometimes it’s easier to refer a member or client to a policy, rather than unpick the details of their concern; sometimes admitting we don’t know something might seem to jeopardise our job or reputation; sometimes the issues we face in voluntary and community sector can feel too difficult to acknowledge our own feelings about…

So I’d really like to hear about when you have:

As this blog is very much ‘thinking-in-progress’, I’m keen to hear people’s views on this.  Collectively, we might be able to develop some alternatives to this debilitating notion of what it means to be a professional…

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  1. Great post Liam. Before starting my own Social Enterprise, I worked for a charity and while it was quite small, we still experienced most of the things you mention. This ‘straight-jacketing’ was one of the reasons why I left to form my own company. While we can build a different model from scratch in a start up instance, we still come across the same so called ‘professionalism’ every day which then poses other problems in terms of building clients and peer networks. Usually it’s basically down to manners and common sense – you can usually gauge whether people are being sincere or following some ‘professional’ rule book. Maybe we need a little check list of how to avoid the cult, know what to look for when networking and have a shared resource of tips for the kinds of approach you adhere to? On thinking – if those who adopt these outdated professional ways are not prepared to embrace a more forward thinking approach, will they ultimately fall away?

    Just a few ramblings there.

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    Thanks for the reply Stuart!

    I think a checklist might be a bit over-prescriptive, as so often the Cult is manifested through tiny details of how people do things in ‘professional’ environments… but I think a shared resources of very brief (1 paragraph) summaries that look at when people have been able to present an alternative and the benefits it has posed (“I made a phone call to someone we needed to present some bad news to, rather than email them. This made future working relationships much easier.” … “I invited the team assistant to the project advisory board to contribute his/her experiences. They saw issues and opportunities that no one else in the room would have identified, because of their experience.” etc)

    Re: those unwilling to adopt the forward-thinking approach falling away. Ultimately, I think, yes, as people can organise on their own in ways that would never before have been possible before, orgs that don’t keep-up with expectations will be made irrelevant… and that this is likely to happen faster than we could imagine, given today’s rate of change… Ultimately, this is about the attitudes, so if orgs are made irrelevant, it may push staff/management to re-evaluate things considerably?

  3. Mulling over a couple of options for the resource thing. Re changing attitudes, are the old practises too ingrained? I can’t see staff / management changing their ways unless instructed to do so – How high up should you aim for meaningful change? I’m seeing parallels with the approach we’re looking at with technology. You really need to sell the benefits, highlight how things are changing, almost warn to change or else?

  4. I started my ‘professional’ career with a very concious attempt to seperate my personal life from work. However I soon realised that I talked about tiny details with my colleagues and they would know more about my weekend antics than my mates
    So I relaxed my attitude, started being myself at work and found that nobody judged me for it,
    People KNOW that everyone is different and enjoy spending time at work with other types of people.
    That said, of course I don’t tell everyone every aspect of my life, but a bit of blurring goes a long way.

    Great post, really enjoyed it

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    Hi there –

    Thanks for commenting! I think that initial step is what can be so hard – and when you realise that it worked out ok, it opens you to other ways of blurring the lines.

    Glad the thinking was enjoyable 🙂

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    I found the Croydon example quite useful on this, because it combined senior directive (go hear from social work clients), with an understanding of core human empathy (hearing the stories first hand), which, I gather, has had some significant impact in terms of breaking the cult down a bit…

    So I think the emphasis has to be pushed at different levels, providing some traditional top-down guidance, while allowing people to figure out the ‘human’ detail themselves, in the right situations…

    The ‘warning’ option may be one way, but threat (extrinsic motivator) rarely forces us to change – it’s usually when we achieve a personal desire (intrinsic motivator) that we push ourselves to make big changes (i.e. – the Croydon approach)… which is not any easy one, but perhaps a discussion in its own right… 🙂

    Thanks for the thoughts Stuart!

  7. I find “professional language” to be one of the most dehumanising aspects of the culture you describe. Examples include “prior to the commencement of”, “utilise” and “it is proposed that.” I’m sure you can think of more!

    This overly-formal mode of expression is often verbose to the point of obscuring meaning. It seems to exist only to make people sound more impressive or important than they feel.

    Professional language has its own formalisations that add nothing to the communication but which people use anyway because they “sound professional.” Redundant phrases like “As you are aware”, “We apologise for any inconvenience caused” and “If you have any questions please do not hesitate to contact us” all fall into this category, not to mention nonsense phrases such as “Re the above please see the below” and “Please find the attached.”

    I think that if we stopped using this “professional language” we’d find workplace communication easier, more friendly and more human in nature.

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    I very much agree Richard!

    I’ve written a bit Tramadol 50 Mg Buy, specifically in the voluntary sector context before, but think that it pervades all areas of our ‘professional’ lives in different forms.

    Have you seen Cheap Tramadol Fedex Overnight that makes reference to the same types of phrases and the awful effects they have on people?

    Thanks for the thoughts! Much appreciated!


  9. Thanks for the link to that Dan Pink article, Liam. I’ve bookmarked it in case of professional need ;o)

    As an engineer who has worked in both the defence- and education sectors I recognise the situation you describe in your post on Jargon. In the past I’ve caught myself using entire sentences composed of nothing but abbrevations!

    Jargon can improve communication efficiency between those in-the-know however overuse makes for a very insular, elitist and clichéd working environment.

  10. Glad you liked the link!

    Jargon, like most other things in life, has its time and its place… sadly, we rarely think of either!

    Self-awareness is a crucial piece of starting to understand the right context for the right language…

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